Couples Connection

How This Works:

You take a private, anonymous survey about your love life, desires, and preferences.
Invite your partner to take the same survey by sending them a link.
Neither of you will see the other's answers. The system compares both sets of answers and generates personalized advice for each of you.
Your answers are never shared directly with your partner—only helpful suggestions based on your combined responses.
Data is deleted after 7 days for privacy.

Basic Info

Your Email: Partner's Email:

Emotional Connection

1. How often do you feel emotionally supported by your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

2. How often do you wish your partner would say "I love you"? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

3. How satisfied are you with romantic gestures (notes, surprises, etc.)? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

4. How often do you enjoy cuddling or physical closeness (non-sexual)? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

5. How often do you daydream about romantic experiences with your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

6. How often do you want your partner to check in about your feelings? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

7. How valued do you feel in your relationship right now? Very Valued
Somewhat Valued
Rarely Valued
Not Valued

8. How often do you think about the future together? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

9. How comfortable are you expressing vulnerability with your partner? Very Comfortable
Somewhat Comfortable
Rarely Comfortable
Not Comfortable

10. How satisfied are you with the emotional connection in your relationship? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

Affection & Physical Touch

11. How often do you want to kiss your partner (outside of sex)? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

12. How often do you wish for hand-holding or gentle touches in public? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

13. How important is cuddling after intimacy to you? Very Important
Somewhat Important
Rarely Important
Not Important

14. How comfortable are you with being physically affectionate in everyday life? Very Comfortable
Somewhat Comfortable
Rarely Comfortable
Not Comfortable

15. How often do you crave playful physical contact (tickling, playful wrestling, etc.)? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

16. How often do you feel your partner shows you physical affection without expecting sex? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

17. How often do you want to be kissed passionately (make-out style)? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

18. How important is touch to feeling loved in your relationship? Very Important
Somewhat Important
Rarely Important
Not Important

19. How often do you want back rubs or massages from your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

20. How often do you want to fall asleep holding or touching your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

Communication & Trust

21. How comfortable are you sharing your deepest feelings with your partner? Very Comfortable
Somewhat Comfortable
Rarely Comfortable
Not Comfortable

22. How often do you feel truly heard by your partner? Always
Usually
Sometimes
Rarely

23. How confident are you that your partner respects your boundaries? Very Confident
Somewhat Confident
Not Very Confident
Not Confident at All

24. How open are you to hearing your partner’s sexual desires without judgment? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Rarely Open
Not Open

25. How comfortable are you asking for what you want in the bedroom? Very Comfortable
Somewhat Comfortable
Rarely Comfortable
Not Comfortable

26. How often do you and your partner reflect on your relationship together? Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

27. How much do you trust your partner to handle your vulnerable moments kindly? Completely Trust
Somewhat Trust
Not Much Trust
Do Not Trust

28. How honest are you about your sexual needs with your partner? Very Honest
Somewhat Honest
Rarely Honest
Not Honest

29. How often do you worry about being judged for your desires? Always
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

30. How often do you feel emotionally safe during intimacy? Always
Usually
Sometimes
Rarely

Sexual Compatibility

31. How satisfied are you with the current frequency of sex? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

32. How often do you think about having sex with your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

33. How often do you fantasize about trying new sexual activities together? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

34. How satisfied are you with your partner's foreplay efforts? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

35. How often do you want sex to be more spontaneous? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

36. How open are you to incorporating toys or props into your sex life? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Rarely Open
Not Open

37. How satisfied are you with mutual oral sex in your relationship? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

38. How often do you enjoy talking dirty or using sexy language during intimacy? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

39. How open are you to roleplay or fantasy scenarios? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Rarely Open
Not Open

40. How comfortable are you initiating sex with your partner? Very Comfortable
Somewhat Comfortable
Rarely Comfortable
Not Comfortable

41. How often do you fantasize about rough sex or power play (consensual)? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

42. How satisfied are you with your current sexual positions variety? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

43. How interested are you in watching erotic content together? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

44. How often do you fantasize about threesomes or group play? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

45. How often do you crave longer, slower sexual sessions? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

46. How often do you want quick, spontaneous sex ("quickies")? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

47. How satisfied are you with after-sex affection and connection? Very Satisfied
Somewhat Satisfied
Rarely Satisfied
Not Satisfied

48. How interested are you in public or semi-public intimacy? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

49. How open are you to incorporating BDSM elements? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Rarely Open
Not Open

50. How confident are you that your sexual needs are fully met? Very Confident
Somewhat Confident
Not Very Confident
Not Confident at All

Exploration & Provocative Desires

51. How interested are you in experimenting with anal play? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

52. How interested are you in using restraints or blindfolds? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

53. How often do you fantasize about being dominant or submissive? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

54. How interested are you in experimenting with anal toys? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

55. How interested are you in voyeurism or exhibitionism? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

56. How often do you fantasize about being tied up or tying up your partner? Very Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

57. How open are you to trying pegging? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Not Open
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

58. How interested are you in playing with temperature (ice, wax, etc)? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

59. How open are you to exploring taboo roleplay scenarios? Very Open
Somewhat Open
Not Open
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up

60. How interested are you in trying something you've never shared with your partner? Very Interested
Somewhat Interested
Not Interested
I Don't Know How to Bring It Up